Discovering Your Voice: A Journey of Self-Healing and Motherhood

Christy Koon
Jul 19, 2024
2 min read

Hey everyone, it's Christy! Welcome to my very first blog post. I'm thrilled to have you here and can't wait to share my journey.

Today, I want to discuss the incredible importance of discovering your voice. Honestly, I never envisioned myself as a blogger. It all began one morning as I savored my essential first cup of coffee and reflected on life. It struck me that perhaps starting a journal could be beneficial. I've often heard about the therapeutic advantages of jotting down thoughts and expressing oneself through writing. I've even tried it a time or two.

When I was young, I loved writing poetry. I can't say I was very good at it, but it was a way for me to "check-in" on how I was feeling and express myself. It was never something I shared with others; it was always something I did to heal. Until today, I couldn't really imagine letting others see my poems. Writing can be such a private thing. It helps people express themselves, but it is also when people are the most vulnerable.

Over the past year, I've been on a significant self-healing journey, which, truth be told, has been a lifelong pursuit. Let me provide a glimpse into my life: I'm currently navigating the "boy mom" phase with my two amazing little boys, aged 2 and 4. I am fully immersed in the whirlwind of motherhood. Additionally, I am a wife, daughter, friend, and full-time employee. What many may not know is that I have been dealing with anxiety for over a decade.

This is where my self-healing journey comes in. I've dedicated a significant amount of time to discovering what brings me joy, how to manage my anxiety, and how to be a better mom. It took me some time to realize that the focus should be on "ways" to find joy, overcome anxiety, and be the best mom I can be rather than on specific "things." I won't sugarcoat it – not every day is perfect. I'm learning that it's okay not to have all the answers and to embrace the learning process each day. I'm also learning to challenge myself to do difficult things, to be vulnerable, and to truly experience life in a different way.

Through this blog, I aim to share my self-healing practices, the highs and lows of motherhood, and my favorite pastimes with you. You can anticipate family-friendly activities, delectable recipes, candid book reviews, and my often amusing attempts at gardening.

I aim to convey how I've found solace in life's simple pleasures. Instead of confining my thoughts to a private journal, I've opted to share them with all of you in the hope of making a positive impact. I hope my journey inspires you to create your cozy haven of comfort and joy.

Be on the lookout for my upcoming blog post, where I'll be sharing my ultimate "Mama needs a moment" toolkit, complete with all my favorite go-to resources for when things get overwhelming. Stay tuned!

I'm eager to hear your thoughts! Feel free to share your questions, comments, or insights in the comments section below.

Warmest wishes, Christy

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